terms & conditions

Effective Date: September 22, 2026
These Terms and Conditions govern your use of www.happilyelderafter.love, including its RSVP forms, chat feature, wedding information, and text-message program. By using this website or opting in to receive text messages, you agree to these Terms and Conditions.
Purpose of This Website
Happily Elder After is a personal wedding website created by Jane Tarbutton and Alexander Elder. It is intended to provide invited guests with information related to the Elder wedding, including event details, travel information, accommodations, schedules, transportation, and guest communications.
This website is not operated by, sponsored by, or officially affiliated with Secrets Playa Mujeres Golf & Spa Resort, Apple Vacations, Wix, SmartOWL, or any linked travel provider.
Wedding Information
We make reasonable efforts to keep wedding, travel, resort, and event information accurate and current. However, schedules, locations, transportation arrangements, resort policies, availability, and other details may change.
Guests are responsible for reviewing official travel documents, reservation confirmations, passport requirements, resort policies, and communications from their travel provider. If information on this website conflicts with an official reservation, contract, or travel document, the official document controls.
RSVPs and Guest Information
When submitting an RSVP or other wedding-related form, you agree to provide accurate information for yourself and any guests included in your response.
Submitting an RSVP does not create a commercial transaction or guarantee travel arrangements, accommodations, transportation, or access to activities not included in the wedding invitation. Guests remain responsible for completing their own travel reservations and complying with applicable resort and travel requirements.
Information submitted through this website will be handled according to our Privacy Policy.
Wedding Text Message Program
Guests may choose to receive occasional SMS or MMS messages from Happily Elder After regarding the Elder wedding.
Messages may include:

Wedding and event reminders
Travel or resort information
Schedule and itinerary updates
Transportation details
Welcome-party or ceremony information
Weather-related updates
Emergency notices or last-minute changes
Responses to guest questions

Message frequency varies and will generally be limited to a few messages before and during the wedding trip. Message and data rates may apply according to your wireless carrier and mobile plan.
Consent to receive text messages is voluntary and is not a condition of attending the wedding, submitting an RSVP, booking accommodations, or using the website.
Text Message Opt-Out and Help
You may unsubscribe from text messages at any time by replying STOP. After opting out, you may receive one final message confirming that your request was processed.
For assistance, reply HELP or contact us at [YOUR EMAIL ADDRESS].
If you later wish to receive messages again, you may opt in again through the website or by contacting us directly.
We will honor reasonable requests to withdraw consent. Opting out of text messages will not cancel or change your wedding RSVP.
Mobile Information and Consent
Mobile information will not be shared with third parties or affiliates for marketing or promotional purposes.
Information may be shared with subcontractors that provide necessary support services, such as website hosting, customer service, communication technology, mobile carriers, messaging aggregators, and text-message delivery.
Text-message originator opt-in data and consent will not be shared with third parties for their own marketing or promotional purposes.
Carrier Disclaimer
Wireless carriers are not responsible for delayed, undelivered, or misdirected messages. Message delivery is subject to the availability and reliability of mobile networks, messaging providers, internet services, and the accuracy of the phone number provided.
We cannot guarantee that every message will be delivered or received within a particular time.
Acceptable Use
You agree not to:

Submit false, misleading, or unauthorized information
Provide another person’s mobile number without permission
Attempt to interfere with the operation or security of the website
Use the website, chat feature, or forms for spam, harassment, fraud, or unlawful activity
Attempt to access information that is not intended for you
Copy or use private wedding information for unauthorized commercial purposes

We may restrict access to the website or communication services if they are misused.
External Links and Services
This website may include links to resort, travel, registry, transportation, social media, or other third-party websites and services.
Those third parties operate independently and may have their own terms, privacy policies, fees, cancellation rules, and security practices. We are not responsible for the availability, accuracy, content, services, or practices of third-party websites.
Website Availability
We may update, change, suspend, or remove parts of the website at any time. We do not guarantee that the website, chat feature, RSVP forms, or text-message services will always be available, uninterrupted, secure, or free from errors.
Disclaimer and Limitation of Liability
This website and its content are provided for general wedding and guest-information purposes.
To the fullest extent permitted by law, Jane Tarbutton and Alexander Elder are not responsible for losses, expenses, delays, injuries, missed reservations, travel interruptions, service outages, or other damages resulting from:

Reliance on website information
Changes made by resorts, airlines, travel providers, or other third parties
Delayed or undelivered text messages
Website or communication-service interruptions
A guest’s failure to review official travel documents or requirements
Use of a third-party website or service

Nothing in these Terms excludes any responsibility that cannot legally be excluded.
Privacy
Your use of the website and participation in the text-message program are also governed by our Privacy Policy. Please review the Privacy Policy to understand how information is collected, used, stored, and shared.
Changes to These Terms
We may update these Terms and Conditions if wedding arrangements, website features, or communication practices change. Updated terms will be posted on this page with a revised effective date.
Continued use of the website after an update means you accept the revised Terms and Conditions.
Governing Law
These Terms and Conditions are governed by the laws of the State of Arizona, without regard to conflict-of-law principles.
Contact Us
For questions about these Terms and Conditions or the wedding text-message program, please contact:
Jane Tarbutton and Alexander Elder
Happily Elder After
Email: happilyelderafter2026@gmail.com
Website: www.happilyelderafter.love